Thinking Vector questionnaire - Dr. Ofer Grosbard

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When someone fails, people -

feel pity for him

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or understand that it is probably difficult for him.

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Being a naughty child is something

very wrong

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or not

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Parents usually say to the child:

“bring me the newspaper.”

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or “please, bring me the newspaper.”

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When someone agrees he says:

o.k.

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yes

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Usually people ask

What happened?

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or what did he do?

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The girl said:

I’m exhausted

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I’m tired

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The mother said to her child:

“Do you want me to read you a story?”

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or “I want to read you a story.”

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The guests

asked: “What do you want to drink?”

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served without being asked anything.

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The father said to his son:

“I need your help”

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or “I want your help”.

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The father said:

“if you don’t do what is necessary you’ll be punished.”

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or “if you are stubborn you’ll be punished.”

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The child whose parents didn’t want to buy him a bicycle says:

“I don’t need any favors. I’ll get along by myself.”

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“Is something wrong with me that you don’t want to buy me a bicycle?!”

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The mother said:

You are great!

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That’s my son.

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The friend says:

“Do you want to go to the beach tomorrow?!”

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or “Why don’t we go to the beach tomorrow?”

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The mother asked the children to

play more calmly

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or calm down.

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The child said that if there is noise

he won’t be able to solve the problem correctly

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or he won’t be able to solve the problem in the right way.

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A lot of fun

ends with crying

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or is good

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Girls should remember

that they are girls and behave accordingly.

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or girls should behave according their feelings.

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The person

told his friend the truth even though he knew it would cause a fight.

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lied to his friend in order not to have a fight with him.

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When a child asks his mother an embarrassing question -

she tells him that it embarrasses her.

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or she avoids answering the question by offering him candy.

20.

People who have different opinions in your community

can’t be friends.

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or can be.

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A child can tell her parents:

“no!”

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or cannot tell her parents: “no!”

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Usually people

know what they really want.

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or others know what they really want.

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Bad dreams -

are not wise to talk about.

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or are good to talk about them.

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The father says to his daughter:

“what is the solution to this exercise?”

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or “what do you think is the solution to the exercise?”